Da dog
Dick, the Blogless one, reminds me I haven’t posted about the dog here in a while, and there have been several reasons.
About six months ago, the dog started acting like he was the Big Shit around here, and we were concerned about him. Now, just me, I have been bitten so damned many times by so many animals I’m unfazed by a dog bite. I would drop kick his fat little beagle ass into next week. But, I didn’t want to get him in the habit of taking his agressions out on the wife or daughter, either. So we sought professional help.
Professional help, it seems, comes in two flavors. The “teach your dog by smiling and being nice and giving it lots of cookies” flavor and the “Teach your dog who is the Alpha dog” behavior.
Not surprisingly, we chose the latter.
Ami, the Chicago Dog Whisperer, came to visit with us a week ago yesterday. She showed up, a close-shorn blonde amazon woman with hands as big as mine, and sat us down to discuss Max, and us.
Now, Dad was a horse whisperer, of sorts, and I understand that the issue is always less of curing the behavior of the animal, than resolving the behavior of the owners. And we apparently needed some resolving.
What Ami said, was that Max is basically a spoiled teenager, feeling his oats. His motto is “You’re not the boss of me” and our motto needed to be “yes, we are”.
SO Ami showed us ways of dealing with the behavior that were experiencing, without harming Max, or making him psycho. And the things she showed us worked IMMEDIATELY.
Now, we liked having Max sleep with us, and we’ll miss that, but we also know we need to do what is best for him in the long run, and this is it.
One thing Ami said that reinforced our beliefd in her, and her method, was “There are two schools of thought regarding dog training. What I call the “democrat school” where you bribe the animal, and if it doesn’t comply with your gentle requests, you put it to sleep, or what I call the “republican” model, where there are immediate and severe consequences for misbehavior”
She had the dog doing exactly what she wanted in ten minutes. She knew exactly what to do, and how to do it. She carried a plastic clipboard in case max decided to bite, and let him bite it, until he understood biting was off limits. WHch took SECONDS.
Good lord.
We have our dog back, and it’s wonderful.
So yeah, Dick, that’s the progress. We’re tickled, and what this lets us do is think about getting the other dogs we want.

My ex and I agreed on how dogs and kids should be raised. One of her jobs was dog trainer. Basically, she trained the people to communicate with the dog in the dog’s language. The book that all the trainers agreed was the best was Dogs Self Trained – A Basic Training Manual by Bob Self (clever eh?)
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw/105-0058777-4291650?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=Dogs+Self+Trained%2C+A+Training+Manual%22&x=12&y=22
Well trained dogs are great companions, dogs with bad habits are a misery. Almost all dogs want to please – but they have to know their place.
Good luck.
Bear, the new, 5 month old Collie/German Shepard mix pup is doing well. Kelly is handling the easy stuff; sit, roll over, lay down, and such.
I’m teaching him the latest in practical corporate assassination techniques, and how to kill.
Good boy…
Glad Max is coming around. Ammo is getting expensive.
Yep, glad Max is doing well.
After Alex was born, I had to have a “discussion” with Edgar Allen, because he didn’t realize that even tiny two-leggers outrank him in the pack.
That’s the thing to remember with dogs – they ARE pack animals, and will ALWAYS BE pack animals. Their entire mindset on how to deal with other dogs, and people, revolves around the pack mentality. Make sure they know that two-leggers are at the top of the pack, and four-leggers come after that, and you’ll have well-behaved dogs. Everything else is just details.
Dogs are pack animals, and want to be part of the pack. They are born to be part of the family. That said, they need to know who the leader is and FAST, and preferably in their own words… They want to please the lead dog, but they need to know that the lead dog is you.
Learning the language of that is sometimes kinda tough.
Glad you got a good trainer.
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