{"id":6422,"date":"2014-05-27T09:33:52","date_gmt":"2014-05-27T14:33:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/?p=6422"},"modified":"2014-05-27T09:33:52","modified_gmt":"2014-05-27T14:33:52","slug":"there-are-some-conversations-that-can-only-be-had-in-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/?p=6422","title":{"rendered":"There are some conversations that can only be had in person."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Or, at worst, via IM; some time ago I had a conversation with someone unfamiliar with the Church about the church&#8217;s leadership- he, like a lot of people, were under the impression that we get to choose our leaders- we do not. <\/p>\n<p>The church hierarchy is like royalty- it isn&#8217;t genetic, but it is appointed and &#8220;Earned&#8221;.  You can &#8220;Earn&#8221; a priesthood, but not a lot who &#8220;Earn&#8221; it deserve it.  And the corruption in the church, right now, is at a high not seen since the days of selling indulgences- though now it&#8217;s bad in whole new ways. <\/p>\n<p>The Pope&#8217;s new statement about celibacy of priests is an example of this. there are a bunch of people who suffer from the delusion that &#8220;married priests would be less likely to molest children&#8221;. This could not be further from the truth. A predator naturally puts himself in a situation where prey exists, and allowing him to be married changes nothing except gives him a cover identity. Plenty of married men molest children, sometimes their own. This is not about that. <\/p>\n<p>Celibacy in the priesthood is not about that. The priesthood is a bloody difficult gig, and anyone who thinks otherewise ought to try to live that life for about a week. Most I know would be hard pressed to last a week <\/p>\n<p>A diocesan priest has a family, and they can number in the thousands. he is responsible for all their well being, and it is a job that is emotionally draining, financially difficult, and doesn&#8217;t involve getting a good nights sleep very often.  <\/p>\n<p>Certainly there are plenty who do not do that job well, that is the way of the world. I cannot imagine a man trying to be a priest and also a husband and father, you cannot do both jobs properly, you simply cannot. <\/p>\n<p>if you want proof that the Church leadership is disconnected from the real world, you only need look at this. And if you&#8217;re a praying person, pray. Pray that the Creator judges us not as we deserve, but with infinite mercy. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Or, at worst, via IM; some time ago I had a conversation with someone unfamiliar with the Church about the church&#8217;s leadership- he, like a lot of people, were under the impression that we get to choose our leaders- we do not. The church hierarchy is like royalty- it isn&#8217;t genetic, but it is appointed [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6422","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6422"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6422\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6422"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6422"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/neanderpundit.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6422"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}