One of my oldest and dearest friends
Gary, has lost his 14 year companion Emerson.
I first met Emerson when he was an enthusiastic puppy. Never was a more loveable dog, and no dog ever had a more attentive owner. When I had a “pup” of my own, the Oglet, we went to visit and Emerson, curious about the short newcomer, gently nosed in and stole the pacifier out of her mouth, his tail wagging so hard it stirred up dust bunnies in the shop as he ran around with his pink prize. The Oglet, far from being frightened (for nobody could be frightened of Emerson) clapped her hands and squealed with glee.
Emerson grew old gracefully, hips and back keeping him from chasing frisbees as he used to, but still active. Aside from a very few overseas trips, I don’t think Emerson and Gary were ever separated for more than a few hours at a time, they went everywhere together. Everytime the truck would stop, pull over, man and dog got out and watered the grass, looked at one another with appreciation of the job well done, and went about their business.
Apparently Emers went with no excessive pain and with full awareness of his surroundings, being held by the man who had been his constant companion all his life.
As I have often said before, if I die and I don’t come to the afterlife being greeted by all the dogs i knew in life, the Creator and I will have some WORDS.
because it’s getting hard for me to see to type, I leave you with what the Master said on the subject:
The Power of the Dog
by Rudyard Kipling
There is sorrow enough in the natural way
From men and women to fill our day;
But when we are certain of sorrow in store,
Why do we always arrange for more?
Brothers and sisters I bid you beware
Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.Buy a pup and your money will buy
Love unflinching that cannot lie–
Perfect passion and worship fed
By a kick in the ribs or a pat on the head.
Nevertheless it is hardly fair
To risk your heart for a dog to tear.When the fourteen years that nature permits
Are closing in asthma or tumors or fits
And the vet’s unspoken prescription runs
To lethal chambers, or loaded guns.
Then you will find–its your own affair
But–you’ve given your heart to a dog to tear.When the body that lived at your single will
When the whimper of welcome is stilled (how still!)
When the spirit that answered your every mood
Is gone–wherever it goes–for good,
You still discover how much you care
And will give your heart to a dog to tear.We’ve sorrow enough in the natural way
When it comes to burying Christian clay.
Our loves are not given, but only lent,
At compound interest of cent per cent.
Though it is not always the case, I believe,
That the longer we’ve kept ’em the more do we grieve;
For when debts are payable, right or wrong,
A short time loan is as bad as a long–
So why in Heaven (before we are there)
Should we give our hearts to a dog to tear?
Gary often asked me- and claimed it would be his one and only question for the Creator when his time on earth had passed-
“Why did God make dog’s lives so short?”
I can answer that for him now, without hesitation.
It’s to remind us how precious all life is.
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Too true. I’ve had a few dogs in my time and they all hurt when they leave. No greater love will any creature show you than a dog.
So very true. Funny, I have a cat named Emerson that loves with his entire being.
My heart goes out to your friend.
Timely post.
I’ve had dogs my whole life and I don’t consider a house a Home without one or ten. I also don’t turn my back on someone who either doesn’t like dogs or whom my dog does not like. I never really thought about how short dog’s time on earth is until recently. Perhaps my advancing age causes me to ponder such things or maybe I’ve loved and lost so many tail wagging friends in my life that each passing adds a new scar on my heart and the cumulative effect now causes me constant pain. I don’t know for sure what it is but I can tell you this, I have a young Bluetick Coonhound that I love dearly and the mere thought of her dieing brings instant tears. The pain of the thought is so great that I’ve been thinking that she may be the last canine companion I ever own because, if the THOUGHT of the passing is this bad, it portends great pain and anguish when the real end is nigh.
Pardon, while I wipe the moisture from my keyboard………..
Another dear friend once told me the secret of how you can deal with all the pain and suffering of loveand loss, and go on to love again, opening yourself to new wounds. “Your heart grows” she told me. She was right.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VxIsevMVoQA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srJQ5fb3QfE
Worry not….. I plan to keep my dancin’ shoes on.
I might of posted this before, but if I haven’t… Enjoy!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H17edn_RZoY
Great post, great poem and yes, that is why the pets and young go, to remind us we all will and can, at any time, I think.
Extend my deepest condolences to Gary.
That’s a great poem.
The hardest for me was the St. Bernard who I grew up with. We lost her to bone cancer when I was 13.
Why did God create dogs?
To give the best of men something to look up to.
Sendarius: Perfectly said.
Og: My condolences to Gary–it’s the hardest part about being the human.
A poem I wrote for my dog a few years ago:
BLONDIE
my first puppy
a cocker spaniel
for five wonderful years
naughty
and playful
like the time
you had gotten into the garbage
and i came home
and you greeted me
with spaghetti noodles
hanging from your ears
then the car hit you
in the street in front
of my house
i carried you in my arms
where you died at the vet
an hour later
and i still cry
like the hole inside me
has no bottom
will i ever heal?
someday soon
if i deserve it
you will once again
growl and tug on my socks
and we will play together forever
and i’ll know, finally
instead of this hell
i’ll be in heaven