Meals I have known
Therre used to be a little french place in Crown Point called Bon Appetit
Louis Retallieu was a master chef, and the restaurant was amazing. They lived upstairs, served guests downstairs, and Louis was a family friend. On several occasions I sat in his little private dining area with a group of friends and yapped late into the night, drinking expensive wines and smoking fine cigars while the pate came to the table in loaves like bread, and everyone argued about rugby (Except me, of course, i was busy taking in the food).
I hardly ever ate an entree there, the appetizers and dessert courses were so amazing. Louis made his own pate, which was insanity itself, served it on some kind of a crisp wafer whose subtle flavor made the pate stand big and tall, and the caper berries and juice therefrom wetted the pate and the crisp and opened the taste buds to receive the wondrous taste. A few sprinkles of a crumbly cheese of some kind that had a slightly nutty and fruity flavor completed the dish. Combined with a glass of Chateau Rieussec from the mid 90’s and a cup of espresso, it was a meal all unto itself, in aroma, flavor, richness, and it’s overwhelming ability to satisfy.
Following this was a poached pear, drizzled with a slightly sweet sauce which combined the flavors of honey and coffee, which took advantage of the already overtittilated taste buds and slapped them into submission, and you didn’t want to eat for the next three days, so as to retain the aftertaste for the longest possible period.

My idea of a perfect French meal? starter: foie gras. amuse bouche: foie gras. main course: foie gras. dessert: foie gras. digestif: foie gras and a triple bump of Lipitor.
Were I a mad scientist, I would be genetically maniipulating geese so their livers contained Lipitor.
“Were I a mad scientist, I would be genetically maniipulating geese so their livers contained Lipitor. ”
Egad, I’d hope your mad scientist first found a way to eliminate the near universal side effect from Lipitor — muscular deterioration.
Else, can you see the indolence now? All you would have the strength left to eat IS chopped liver.
Damn, now I’m hungry. And drooling.
“Used to be” or still is?
Oooog. Garlic mashed potatoes … and those desserts… and everything… the house, the ambience. I could die just looking at those pictures of the food.
I had very briefly (emphasis on very) entertained the idea of trying something akin to this in my own home, but of course, lacked the key ingredients.
Ed: Alas, gone. Louis left to spend time with his grandchildren ages ago. The food was wonderful, and is now gone.
A fine example of one of those things that we need to thoroughly enjoy while we have the chance, since the only constant in this world is change…
You reminded me of Merrillville’s old Bon Femme. The food was good but not of the quality of Bon Apetit, for sure. But the common thing is this also was a one-off, and the Femme was more of a bohemian hangout than anything. You wonder how Rich stayed in business as casual as he ran the place, as low the prices were, and how few people dropped in, but he did well for himself, sold the place to a couple who took it to Valparaiso for a big buck, then retired, though for him retiring was more like Jerry Garcia trying to retire from the Grateful Dead – heck, you’re not doing anything but hanging out and being a bon vivant anyway! Then someone told me that the guy found dead in a Valparaiso park was Rich. Checking out while taking a nice autumn stroll on a fine Valpo morning – that was so Rich, I couldn’t think of him going any other way.
I know a few places that are more like going to someone’s living room or clubhouse than going in a business, but those are getting as rare as unicorn horns.
I knew a number of people who were creeped out by what they described as Bon Apetit’s “funeral home” ambiance, so I didn’t go. But sometimes you miss out. Sounds like it was terrific for you.