Neanderpundit

Sunday 13 Nov 2005

Lessons from a sleazy bar

4 comments Og | Uncategorized

4 Responses to “Lessons from a sleazy bar”

1. on 13 Nov 2005 at 12:35 pm   Mark Alger
   
   

   Yebbut… there are tops and bottoms. And it seems for the most part that the roles are chosen from natural inclination.

   As to which is a “masculine” and which a “feminine” principle, (read: “butch” and “femme”) is an open question.

   M

2. on 13 Nov 2005 at 9:59 pm   og
   
   

   I grok that; I’m just saying the guy in this instance was WAY out of line.

3. on 15 Nov 2005 at 8:26 am   Punctilious
   
   

   Og, What a hoot. Wish I’d thought of this one!

4. on 15 Nov 2005 at 3:20 pm   Doug_S
   
   

   Maureen’s recent Sunday Times Magazine comes to mind. She complained that men like to marry down instead of marry powerful smart women like herself. I thought, first, both sides voluntarily marry so women like to marry up as well as men marry down, and second, every relationship I know of that works, including gay relationships have one person taking a more supporting role and the other taking a more “traditional male” role. Even when neither is male or both are male. So maybe her ideal two type A uberachievers who act equally towards each other is a dream.